When you forgive someone it is not for them so much as for yourself. I was reminded of that just today. Cause sometimes it is so hard to forgive. One of my wise sisters said to me that Jesus forgave you and said to forgive HOW MANY TIMES? In the hardest times in life there is bright spots. I need to start looking more for those. Here are some blessing I have to be thankful for God, a wonderful husband that not only loves me but accepts me for who I am , friends, my MOM, wonderful in-laws, cute nieces and nephews, trees and flowers. SMILES like that.